Eye contact, though not a sure sign of dishonesty, is a clear way to show interest in another person. When a person looks at you and continues to do so, you know his attention is placed on you. When he turns his head away, his mind is probably elsewhere. But there are exceptions. A shy person may have trouble making and keeping eye contact, no matter how interested he is in the other person. And certain nationalities, such as the British and Germans, are much less oriented to eye-to-eye contact than, say, the French and the Arabs.
Eye contact should be natural, not forced or overdone.
Have short periods of eye contact while you watch other parts of the person's face — especially the mouth. When the person smiles, be sure to smile back. But always make an effort to return your gaze to the person's eyes as she speaks. It is common to look up, down, and all around when speaking to others, and not have eye contact at all times.
Too much eye contact, especially if it is forced, can work against you. If you stare at a person, or leer in a suspicious way, the other person may feel uncomfortable and even suspicious about your intent. A fixed stare can seem like aggressive behavior. if it is a challenge as to who will look away first.
(1)Many people believe that eye contact is a sign of ___________.
A、honesty
B、dishonesty
C、attention
D、A and C
(2)According to the passage, which of the following statements is NOT true?
A、Eye contact is a way to show interest in another person.
B、When a person looks at you, his attention is placed on you.
C、When a person fails to make eye contact, he is definitely not interested in you.
D、It is common to look up, down, and all around when speaking to others.
(3)While we watch other person's face, we should have short periods of eye contact with, especially, other people's _____________.
A、eyes
B、nose
C、mouth
D、ears
(4)Which of the following statements is TRUE according to the passage?
A、Eye contact is not a good test of honesty.
B、Some people may have trouble making and keeping eye contact, no matter how interested he is in the other person.
C、If someone can look at you directly in the eye, he or she is playing honestly.
D、A number of experts have found out that no one can make false eye contact.
(5)This passage mainly discusses ________________.
A、how to test one is honest or not by the way of eye contact
B、how to make eye contact
C、how to avoid too much eye contact
D、the function of correct eye contact
第1题
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal,
“I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage,” she offered.
“Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together. ”
Her husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
“I'll start,” offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it. Enough to fill 3 pages in fact. As she started, reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
“What’s wrong?” she asked.
“Nothing,” the husband replied, “keep reading your list.”
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
“Now,you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists, ” she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, “I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you. ”
The wife, touched by his honesty, the depth of his love for her, and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
(1)Which is NOT true according to the passage?
A、The man and his girlfriend had a great wedding.
B、The woman wanted reasons for a divorce.
C、The man respected his wife very much.
D、The woman was moved by her husband's kindness.
(2) The woman suggested writing down another's weak points, in order to ________.
A、make her marriage better
B、show her annoyance with her husband
C、let other people know
D、help her husband think independently
(3) What is the writer's attitude to the husband's behavior?
A、Positive
B、Ironical(讽刺的)
C、Opposite
D、None of the above.
(4) According to your understanding, why did tears appear in the husband's eyes?
A、Because his wife was too perfect.
B、Because he accepted her as a whole, but she didn't.
C、Because he loved her more than she loved him.
D、Because his wife was too rude (粗鲁的).
(5) It can be inferred from the passage that the wife
A、would shorten her list.
B、would not let other people know her husband's bad aspects.
C、would learn to respect and accept her husband fully.
D、would be confused.
第2题
was next to the room's only window, __(2)__ to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. But Ben had to spend all day and night __(3)__ flat on his bed. To __(4)__ time the two men began to talk. They talked for hours about their wives, families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, and where they had been on vacation. __(5)__ days went by, a deep friendship began to develop between them.
Every afternoon when Jack could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to Ben all the things he could see outside the window. And Ben began to live for those one-hour __(6)__ when his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.
The window __(7)__a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm __(8)__ flowers of every color of the rainbow. Grand old trees beautified the landscape, and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.
As Jack described all this in detail, Ben would close his eyes and imagine the beautiful scene.
One warm afternoon Jack described a parade __(9)__ by. Although Ben couldn't hear the band, he could see it in his __(10)__ eye as Jack portrayed it with descriptive words.
(1)A、which
B、that
C、whose
D、who
(2)A、allowing
B、allowed
C、to allow
D、was allowed
(3)A、lying
B、lain
C、lied
D、lay
(4)A、take
B、kill
C、keep
D、make
(5)A、As
B、With
C、Once
D、For
(6)A、times
B、×
C、pauses
D、periods
(7)A、overacted
B、overexcited
C、overlooked
D、overtook
(8)A、in
B、amid
C、within
D、with
(9)A、pass
B、passing
C、passed
D、past
(10)A、mind's
B、brain's
C、heart's
D、head's
第3题
and see if there is something wrong with your personality.
Maybe you have social faults such as snobbishness, talkativeness, using slang, etc., which drive away your new acquaintances. Whatever your social faults may be, look at them honestly, and make a real effort to correct them.
To be friendly you must feel friendly. Cheerfulness is the basis of friendliness. A cheerful person smiles. A smile is a magnet which draws people. Smile at someone and you are almost sure to get a smile in return.
A friendly person does his best to make a stranger feel at home, wherever he happens to be. Put yourself in the other fellow's place and make him feel welcome.
Try to remember names. It makes your new acquaintances feel happy when you call them by their names. It gives them the feeling that they have made an impression on you and that must mean something to them because you remember them.
If you do not agree with other people on a certain matter, you should appear to be friendly. Do not argue, but discuss. You always lose friends if you argue too much.
A friendly person thinks of others, and does not insist on his own “rights”. People who refuse to consider others have few friends.
Finally, don't treat people only according to their social position. Really friendly people respect everyone at all times.
(1)Those who fail to make friends may ______.
A、discuss with others rather than argue with others
B、remember the names of new acquaintances
C、insist on his own rights and fail to stand in others' shoes
D、make a stranger feel at home
(2)What does the word “magnet” mean in the third paragraph?
A、brush
B、sth. beautiful
C、sign
D、sth. attractive
(3)What can we infer from this passage?
A、Others will smile at you if you smile at them.
B、If you respect people no matter who they are, you'll make more friends.
C、Snobbishness, talkativeness and using slang are some social faults.
D、None of the above.
(4)According to the passage, which of the following statement is NOT true?
A、Making friends has sth. to do with your personality.
B、Cheerful smiles can make you friendly in others' eyes.
C、Friendly people will treat others according to their social position.
D、Thinking of others can bring you more friends.
(5)The purpose of the passage is ________.
A、how to correct social faults
B、how to build good personality
C、how to feel at home with strangers
D、how to make friends
第4题
riendship. Reading what they write, I start to understand Chinese friendship obligations. Chinese can usually expect more from their friends than Americans can. For instance, once a student wrote that she understood that her friend wanted to go shopping. My student was busy and really had no time to do that, but she kept silent, put her work aside and went shopping with her friend. This is quite different from what American young people would say about friendship. In the U.S. you feel free to ask your friend for help, but you recognize that the friend may say no, if they give you a reason. A friend in China is someone who, sensing that you are in need in some way, offers to assist you without waiting to be asked. In China there are few limits on what you can ask or expect of a friend.
Another difference is that Chinese expect friendships to be more lasting. They think a true friendship is a relationship that endures through changes in the lives of the friends. In the U.S. a person is likely to change even “best friends” several times over the years. Even the relationship in which people feel close emotionally and tell each other their secrets and personal problems may not survive life changes such as a move to another city, graduation from university, a significant change in economic circumstances, or the marriage of one of the friends. I think the reason is that friendship, like so many other relationships in the U.S. including marriage, depends on frequent interaction with the other person. If the people involved do not see each other and inter act regularly, the relationship is likely to fade and die.
(1)What may an American girl do if she is busy when her friend asks her to go shopping?
A、She may keep silent.
B、She may put her work aside and go shopping with her friend.
C、She may say no, giving reasons.
D、she may help you without waiting to be asked.
(2)Which of the following statements is true?
A、Chinese people don't feel free to ask their friends for help.
B、Chinese people always try to help their friends without being asked.
C、Americans wouldn't offer help when you ask.
D、Americans always say no to their friends.
(3)Which of the following sayings can properly describe Chinese friendship?
A、A friend in need is a friend indeed.
B、Love me, love my dog.
C、Don’t put all your eggs in one basket.
D、None of the above.
(4)According to the passage, why are Americans likely to change their friends several times over the years?
A、Because this is their nature.
B、Because they don't have best friends all through their lives.
C、Because American friendship depends on frequent interaction with the other person.
D、Because American friendship is to fade and die.
(5)What is the most proper title for this passage?
A、Chinese Friendship
B、American Friendship
C、Friendship
D、Friendship in China and America
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