Trying to Find a Partner
One of the most striking findings of a recent poll in the UK is that of the people interviewed, one in two believes that it is becoming more difficult to meet someone to start a family with.
Why are many finding it increasingly difficult to start and sustain intimate relationships? Does modern life really make it harder to fall in love? Or are we making it harder for ourselves?
It is certainly the case today that contemporary couples benefit in different ways from relationships. Women no longer rely upon partners for economic security or status. A man doesn't expect his spouse to be in sole charge of running his household and raising his children.
But perhaps the knowledge that we can live perfectly well without a partnership means that it takes much more to persuade people to abandon their independence.
In theory, finding a partner should be much simpler these days. Only a few generations ago, your choice of soul mate (心上人) was constrained by geography, social convention and family tradition. Although it was never explicit, many marriages were essentially arranged.
Now those barriers have been broken down. You can approach a builder or a brain surgeon in any bar in any city on any given evening. When the world is your oyster (牡蛎), you surely have a better chance of finding a pearl.
But it seems that the old conventions have been replaced by an even tighter constraint: the tyranny of choice.
The expectations of partners are inflated to an unmanageable degree: good looks, impressive salary, kind to grandmother, and right socks. There is no room for error in the first impression.
We think that a relationship can be perfect. If it isn't, it is disposable. We work to protect ourselves against future heartache and don't put in the hard emotional labor needed to build a strong relationship. Of course, this is complicated by realities. The cost of housing and child-rearing creates pressure to have a stable income and career before a life partnership.
What does the recent poll show?
A.It is getting more difficult for a woman to find her husband.
B.It is getting increasingly difficult to start a family.
C.It is getting more difficult for a man to find his wife.
D.It is getting increasingly difficult to develop an intimate relationship with your spouse.
第1题
术后患者出现恶心、呕吐最常见的原因是
A、伤口疼痛
B、腹胀
C、麻醉反应
D、肠蠕动增强
E、术后肠梗阻
第2题
与蛛网膜下腔阻滞相比较,骶管阻滞麻醉的最显著特点是
A.同属椎管内麻醉
B.术后常出现尿潴留
C.容易出现局麻药毒性反应
D.阻滞范围大
E.维持时间短
第3题
患者男,35岁。无吸烟和肺部疾病史,全麻下行肠道手术。术后麻醉未清醒时,呼吸出现鼾声,考虑出现了
A、上呼吸道梗阻
B、下呼吸道梗阻
C、低氧血症
D、窒息
E、麻醉意外
第4题
A.为其进行术后指导,告知患者术后阴道残端肠线吸收,可致阴道少量出血,大约在术后
B.1-2天出现
C.1-2周出现
D.3-4天出现
E.3-4周出现
F.5-6天出现
第5题
椎管内麻醉术后患者常规去枕平卧6小时是为了防止出现()
A、头痛
B、血压下降
C、呼吸抑制
D、恶心呕吐
E、腹胀
第6题
A、硬膜外血肿
B、麻醉药毒性反应
C、全脊髓麻醉
D、假性脑膜炎
E、麻醉平面过高
第9题
患者女性,因右胫腓骨骨折行手术治疗,手术后2小时出现恶心、呕吐,其原因是
A.颅内压增高
B.麻醉反应
C.术后腹胀
D.肠梗阻
E.低血钾
第10题
患者,男性。行胆囊切除术,术后3~6日出现体温升高,超过38.5℃,可能是由于
A.麻醉反应
B.肺不张
C.输血反应
D.感染
E.外科手术热
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