If you say to your children "I am sorry I got angry with you, but ..." what follows that "but' can render the apology ineffective. "I had a bad day" or "your noise was giving me a headache" leaves the person who has been injured feeling that he should be apologizing for his bad behavior. in expecting an apology.
Another method by which people appear to apologize without actually doing so is to say 'Tm sorry you're upset"; this suggests that you are somewhat at fault for allowing yourself to get upset by what the other person has done.
Then there is the general, all covering apology, which avoids the necessity of identifying a specific act that was particularly hurtful or insulting, and which the person who is apologizing should promise never to do again. Saying "I'm useless as a parent" does not commit a person to any specific improvement.
These pseudo-apologies are used by people who believe saying sorry shows weakness. Parents who wish to teach their children to apologize should see it as a sign of strength, and therefore not resort to these pseudo-apologies.
But even when presented with examples of genuine contrition, children will need help to become aware of the complexities of saying sorry. A three-year-old might need help in understanding that other children feel pain just as he does, and that hitting a playmate over the head with a heavy to requires an apology. A six-year-old might need to be shown that raiding the buscuit tin without asking permission is acceptable, but that borrowing a parent's clothes without permission is not.
If a mother adds "but" to an apology, ______.
A.she doesn't feel that she should have apologized
B.she does not realize that the child has been hurt
C.the child may find the apology easier to accept
D.the child may feel that he owes her an apology
第1题
在关系数据库设计中,设计关系模式是数据库设计中()阶段的任务。
A.需求分析阶段
B.概念设计阶段
C.逻辑设计阶段
D.物理设计阶段
第2题
在关系数据库设计中,设计关系模式是数据库设计中哪个阶段的任务? ()。
A.需求分析阶段
B.概念设计阶段
C.逻辑设计阶段
D.物理设计阶段
第3题
在关系数据库设计中,设计关系模式是数据库设计中()阶段的任务。
A.需求分析阶段
B.概念设计阶段
C.逻辑设计阶段
D.物理设计阶段
第4题
在关系数据设计中,设计关系模式是数据库设计中哪个阶段的任务?
A.需求分析阶段
B.概念设计阶段
C.逻辑设计阶段
D.物理设计阶段
第5题
在关系数据库设计中,设计关系模式是数据库设计中()的任务。
A.需求分析阶段
B.概念设计阶段
C.逻辑设计阶段
D.物理设计阶段
第6题
在关系数据库设计中,设计关系模式是数据库设计中()的任务。
A.需求分析阶段
B.概念设计阶段
C.逻辑设计阶段
D.物理设计阶段
第9题
在关系数据库设计中,设计关系模式是数据库设计中哪个阶段的任务______。
A) 逻辑设计阶段
B) 概念设计阶段
C) 物理设计阶段
D) 需求分析阶段
第10题
在关系型数据库设计中,设计关系模式是数据库设计中______阶段的任务。
A.需求分析
B.概念设计
C.逻辑设计
D.物理设计
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